You may have heard about gross motor development for young children from a pediatrician or another professional, but in this blog, we’re going to break down the milestones your child should be hitting and what to do if they’re delayed in their development. It’s essential to understand that this is not about shaming your child or your parenting skills if your little one isn’t meeting these milestones. Rather, gross motor development is crucial for both movement and cognitive development, so it’s important to be aware of where your child is at in their growth journey.
Gross motor development hinges on something called gross motor skills. But what exactly are these skills? In simple terms, gross motor skills are the abilities that control the large muscles in the body. Movements such as crawling and walking are prime examples of gross motor skills. While there are many more complex movements that fall under this category, we’ll focus on the key milestones relevant to infants and toddlers.
You might also have heard about fine motor skills. The primary difference between the two is that fine motor skills involve more precise movements that utilize smaller muscles, like using scissors or picking up small objects. Both gross and fine motor skills are important for overall development, but fine motor skills typically develop after gross motor skills have been established.
Now, let’s explore the specific milestones that your little one should be achieving, breaking it down by age ranges.
During the first few months of life, the most significant milestone your baby will reach is the ability to turn their head in both directions. At this stage, grasping objects is common, and other movements may be jerky and uncoordinated. If your baby tends to favor one side while lying on their back or stomach, don’t worry! We have a great blog post about this and ways you can support your baby’s development to ensure they’re moving towards balanced growth.
In this next stage, your baby is gaining more control over their movements. Some key milestones during this period may include: pushing up through their arms while on their belly, bringing their feet to their mouth when lying on their back, and rolling over from back to front and vice versa. These actions may seem simple, but they are foundational skills that pave the way for more complex movements later on.
At this point, your child is beginning to exhibit a sense of independence in their movements. You may notice them sitting up unassisted, starting to crawl, or pulling themselves up to a sitting position. Other important milestones during this stage include holding a toy in each hand, rocking back and forth on hands and knees, and actively crawling to reach for toys or other objects of interest. It’s an exhilarating time as you watch your baby explore their environment with newfound mobility!
This stage is particularly exciting because your baby is making significant strides towards independence—both physically and emotionally. Key milestones to look for include cruising along furniture, crawling over obstacles, using both hands to manipulate toys, walking while holding onto someone’s hands, and eventually taking their first independent steps. This period can be filled with joy and pride as you witness your baby’s determination to explore their world on their own terms.
By their first birthday, your child has accomplished a lot! However, the second year of life is equally important for gross motor development. Some milestones you might observe during this time include crawling up stairs, kicking a ball forward, walking independently, and stacking toys. Each of these milestones builds on previous skills, setting the stage for even greater physical and cognitive achievements in the years to come.
Finally, as your child reaches the age of two, you’ll likely notice a significant increase in their independence. Milestones to monitor during this stage include walking up stairs independently—albeit slowly—jumping in place with both feet, and kicking a ball with both feet. At this age, your child may also start to enjoy running and climbing, showcasing their growing confidence in their gross motor abilities.
First and foremost, it’s important to reassure yourself that you’re not alone, and it’s not your fault. You are not a bad parent, and your child is not “behind in life.” Each child develops at their own pace, and variations in development are completely normal.
These milestones serve as helpful checkpoints, but if your child is not meeting them, it doesn’t necessarily indicate that something is wrong. However, it can be beneficial to seek professional help. At KinActive, we specialize in pediatric care and therapy intensives, and our mission is to change the landscape of pediatric care worldwide. If you’re concerned about your child’s gross motor development, don’t hesitate to contact us for more information on how we can support your child’s growth.
We understand that not every family can visit our office for personalized care, which is why we offer additional resources that can benefit you no matter where you live. Here are a few options:
1. KinActive Masterclasses: We provide a comprehensive library of masterclasses covering everything from helping your child crawl to mastering walking. These resources are designed to equip you with practical techniques that can encourage your child’s gross motor development.
2. KinActive University: For clinicians looking to expand their knowledge on how to implement KinActive’s best practices in pediatric care, our online courses offer valuable insights. If you’re a parent seeking a clinician in your area who utilizes our methods, our clinician database tool can help you find the right fit.
3. Community Engagement: Connecting with other parents can provide support and encouragement. Consider joining local parenting groups or online forums where you can share experiences and tips related to your child’s development.
At KinActive, we understand and honor that every child develops at their own pace. Our approach is rooted in understanding and compassion for every family we support. We hope that our online resources serve as valuable tools for you, empowering you to assist your child in their journey of gross motor development. Remember, the goal is not perfection but progress—every little step counts!