Sidelying is one of the most overlooked yet powerful positions for newborns—and it’s time we talk about it. While back-sleeping is essential for safe sleep, and tummy time gets all the attention for motor development, sidelying sits quietly in the background… but it has big benefits.
This simple position supports early movement, helps prevent flat spots on the head, encourages visual exploration, and promotes balanced muscle development. If you’re looking to add intention to your baby’s awake time without overwhelming them (or you), sidelying is a great place to begin.
Sidelying means just what it sounds like: placing your baby on their side. That’s it. But don’t let its simplicity fool you—sidelying is a powerhouse when it comes to early development. It encourages symmetrical movement, gives babies a break from back, and helps little ones learn to bring their hands to midline (hello, body awareness!).
It’s especially helpful for babies who are a bit tight on one side, or who show early signs of torticollis.
Let’s be honest—most newborns spend a lot of time on their backs. Between car seats, swings, bassinets, and play mats, the default is flat-on-the-back living. But when babies are awake, they need a variety of positions to build strength, prevent flat spots, and explore their bodies and environments. That’s where sidelying comes in—offering a simple yet powerful position for balanced development.
Here’s what sidelying brings to the table:
Don’t overthink it. You don’t need fancy equipment. Just a flat surface, a rolled-up towel or small pillow behind baby’s back, and maybe another towel between their knees for alignment.
You can start this as early as 10 weeks—just make sure baby is awake and supervised. Five minutes here and there, a few times a day, can make a world of difference.
Sidelying is also a fantastic position for nursing or bottle feeding. It allows for better alignment of the baby’s head and neck, can reduce reflux symptoms, and supports a calmer, more regulated feed. Win-win.
Look, there’s no one “perfect” way to position a baby, and variety is key. But if sidelying isn’t part of your routine yet, it’s time to mix it in. It’s gentle, developmentally rich, and can be a total game-changer for babies who need a little extra support early on.
If your baby seems stiff, always prefers looking one direction, or just isn’t loving tummy time yet, sidelying might be the bridge you’re looking for.
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